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Loneliness is as dangerous to your health as smoking half a pack of cigarettes a day or being obese.
When we think about being healthy and having a high life expectancy, we often tend to think about getting enough exercise, eating healthy doesn't drink or smoking too much. But according to the world's longest study( 85 years) from Harvard University, led by Robert Waldinger (photo above) on health and happiness, other factors are much more important.
In fact, loneliness is as dangerous to your health as smoking half a pack of cigarettes a day or being obese. We, The Educated Singles Club, want to share this article with you here because we know many of you are working a lot and often feel stressed. And if you don't have a spouse or a close friend to talk to it can be very damaging to your health.
You are in a club where you can trust all your fellow members, so we encourage you to reach out and create new friendships. The Educated Singles Club is so much more than a dating site. You already know what.
Well-educated singles can take proactive steps to combat loneliness in ways that foster deep connections, personal growth, and fulfilment—without relying solely on finding a romantic partner. Here are some meaningful approaches:
1. Build Strong Social Connections
• Deepen existing friendships: Invest more time in nurturing close friendships instead of just maintaining surface-level connections.
• Expand your social circle: Join professional associations, alumni groups, or interest-based clubs (e.g., book clubs, art classes, hiking groups).
• Host gatherings: Create regular social events like dinner parties, movie nights, or discussion forums to stay engaged with people.
2. Engage in Meaningful Activities
• Volunteer: Giving back to the community through causes you care about can provide a sense of belonging and fulfilment.
• Take up a hobby: Learn a new skill like music, photography, martial arts, or creative writing to stay engaged and meet like-minded people.
• Join group fitness activities: Yoga, dance, or martial arts classes can be great for socializing and physical well-being.
3. Foster Intellectual Stimulation
• Attend lectures, workshops, or conferences: Engaging with new ideas and people can be enriching and socially fulfilling.
• Start or join a discussion group: Book clubs, philosophy nights, or even debate forums can help you connect with others intellectually.
4. Develop a Rich Inner Life
• Practice mindfulness and meditation: Learning to be content in your own company can reduce feelings of loneliness.
• Journaling or creative expression: Writing, painting, or composing music can be deeply fulfilling.
• Set personal growth goals: Learning new languages, travelling solo, or taking up public speaking can be both enriching and confidence-boosting.
5. Cultivate a Sense of Community
• Engage in local events: Farmers’ markets, community meetups, and neighbourhood initiatives can provide casual social interactions.
• Consider co-living arrangements: Living in shared housing or intentional communities can create built-in social interaction.
• Find spiritual or philosophical communities: Whether religious or secular, engaging with a shared belief system can provide a sense of belonging.
6. Adopt a Pet
• If possible, getting a pet (dog, cat, etc.) can provide companionship and even help you meet new people through pet-friendly events and activities.
7. Seek Professional Support When Needed
• If loneliness becomes overwhelming, talking to a therapist or joining a support group can provide tools to navigate it.
Would any of these approaches resonate with you, or would you like ideas tailored to a specific situation?
https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2023/02/work-out-daily-ok-but-how-socially-fit-are-you/