What is most important when looking for a partner?

For me, the answer lies within the context of "compatibility." There is little doubt, that an attraction to a potential relationship is vital. All to often, however, many think of atraction only in terms of "physical" characteristics. While being physically attracted to a person is necessary, being attracted to their attributes is also necessary. Attributes such as intelligence, compassion, humility, care, concern, communication, understanding, wisdom. I may be different than most men but the first thing I notice about a woman is her eyes and smile. One can manufacture looks BUT the eyes cannot lie because they are connected to the soul. Be very careful to get past the "bust and behind" and give much attention to the "real" person!